An honor no one wants
A Gold Star Family is immersed in the profound traditions of military sacrifice and national honor. The term originated in the first World War when families with members actively serving in the armed forces displayed service flags outside their homes as a symbol of solidarity and support for their loved ones fighting overseas.
These flags bore a blue star for each immediate family member in service. When a service member perished in the line of duty, the blue star was solemnly replaced with a gold star, signifying the family's ultimate sacrifice in the fight for freedom and the defense of our nation.
In recognition of these tremendous sacrifices, the United States officially began commemorating Gold Star Mother's Day in 1936.
The solidarity expanded before the conclusion of World War II with the formation of Gold Star Wives. By 1947, the Gold Star Lapel Button was introduced, serving as a tangible symbol of a family's grief and pride.
Today, Gold Star Mothers and Fathers are honored on the last Sunday of September, while Gold Star Spouses are remembered on April 5th. Representing a distinction that no one desires, membership in a Gold Star Family signifies a sorrowful bond forged by the highest price paid for our country's freedoms.